13 attitudes to the "love" sublimation

In sex, as well as other areas, the positive attitude you can raise itself up, and negative attitudes resulting in reverse. 

If you suspect that the real attitude change materials can change your sex life? Please compare the sexual behavior of yourself with the following issues. For example, if you ever think: "My wife never peaked during sex because she felt territorial" - change in thinking: "I and my wife will come together to find out that she needed What to peak while two people love each other. " The right attitude will provide energy for yourself, and positive action will immediately join help you think positively. 

Here are 13 attitudes bring success to the love, the specialist sex therapist, professor Joel D. Block writes in his book "Secrets to have the most passionate love." 

1. Knowledge

Knowledge is power of sex. Some people believe in matters of sexual mistakes. (For example, women do not peak when love is feeling territorial. Male ejaculation is a problem about sex. Men can not erect when love is so angry with people who love ...) No information sexual correctness or misconceptions about sex will lead to disastrous consequences later on, hurt feelings, and reduce the emotional enjoyment of great sex. 

2. Courage
 
Sexual need a little courage. Do not let your sense of fear and shame restrict your sexual activity with a partner. Feeling of fear and shame can not hope to satisfy yourself and your partner will interfere with yourself and your partner to apply new techniques and try new different postures to achieve agreed complacency as desired.

3. The freedom

Sexual freedom is the freedom escape mood "mandatory", "should" ... Sex is about the "desired", "liking", not "imperative." You and your partner want? That is the main problem, is not what you think you have to do. 

4. Relevance

Greatest satisfaction occurs when there is relevance to your situation. If you are too busy with the ability to care and satisfaction of your own, you will not be able to entice your partner to experience great love, right? 

5. Trust

The screen will love the most romantic place if both feel safe even when they have many weaknesses. To overcome obstacles, almost everyone needs to believe that his opponent would accept unconditionally. 

6. The comprehensive

In sex, as in life, couples are totally possible and can share their own experiences to your life. 

7. Communication

If you disclose what exactly you want without hurting others, you are very wise and able to communicate effectively. Foregoing will be more important than sleep in bed elsewhere. 

8. Context of love
 
The sexual satisfaction will occur if the pair you really love each other love. 

9. Desiring to get help
 
Sometimes your partner having sexual difficulties that they did not fix. Do not even matter to destroy your relationship, your partner. Positive attitude will help you find the professional help to solve earlier problems. 

10. Good health
 
Take care of your health in every field of life, including sex. If you feel healthy, you can feel everything more fun and upbeat when you're sick or physical problems. Some substances are annoyed about the inevitable. But the habits of the good itself would improve your ability to have good health.

11. Egalitarianism
 
Republic of sexual concepts put people in a simple and limited. (Men should start prior sexual conduct. Women must have a passive attitude ...). Narrow sexual attitudes will hinder the sublimation great experience. 

12. Sexual feelings  

Sex is actually much more wonderful than the feeling, if only to the top. Because to achieve orgasm, that process also creates different tones of passionate feelings that are difficult to replace top. So if both are focused on the sexual feelings they will experience more complete.
 
13. Humor

We often look at a sex angle too seriously. Sexual feelings should be fun, and sometimes spontaneously funny. The couple can smile for the moment when they fail rate. 

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